Compassionate Friends sets candle-lighting event The Central Jersey Chapter of the Compassionate Friends, a support group for bereaved parents, will hold its Candle-Lighting Ceremony from 1:45-4:30 p.m. on Dec. 9 at St. Peter's Episcopal Church Hall, 505 Main St., Spotswood. Participants are asked to bring a photo of their child and, if possible, a dish to share. Call (732) 690-6673.