Future of NL site will dictate quality of life Guest Column ROBERT SPIEGEL AND GREG REMAUD       The Sayreville Economic Redevelopment Agency's selection of O'Neill Properties as the designated redeveloper for the National Lead (NL) site will not benefit residents of Sayreville and Middlesex County unless O'Neill is truly committed to a balanced redevelopment. More ... Red State/Blue State All tuckered out from the holiday 'debates' DAVE SIMPSON & GREG BEAN       A political discussion between Red State conservative Dave Simpson - a former reporter, editor, publisher and columnist - and Greg Bean, Blue Stater and executive editor of Greater Media Newspapers. Dear Greg: The holidays are over and this Red State Republican/conservative is one ti... More ... Coda No town meeting 'til you fill out the proper form GREG BEAN       As the captain said to the convict road gang in "CoolHand Luke," themovie that put me off hard-boiled eggs for more than a decade, "What we got here is ... failure to communicate." That's what happened in Gov. More ...